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Ask Sherry: Do I fear for my safety when I take the bus?

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According to the pictures that show your lovely, gorgeous wardrobe, have you ever feared for your safety whenever you take public transportation?

You know, I never thought about it.

I do not fear for my safety as I have the privilege to live in a country that is safe and not malicious.

I do get some looks, and I have had some comments from other women who whisper when they see my bags (I carried my Givenchy Antigona) and she was saying to her friend : “Don’t stare now! But she is carrying the bag I want, the Givenchy..” .. but other than that, nothing malicious.

I was also stopped at the post office once when I was wearing this outfit and the lady told me she loved everything about each piece I was wearing.

I feel very safe. I am also careful and I don’t go down dark alleyways alone.

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Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

Am my own Sugar Daddy. Am a millionaire at 36 after getting out of $60K of student debt in 18 months, a little over a decade earlier, using I have worked 50% of my career (taking 1-2 year breaks), and quadrupled my income within 2 years of graduating, going from $65K to $260K with an average lifetime savings rate of 50%. I have 11 side incomes that are on track in 2020 to make me $50K - $75K. I could retire today if I wanted, but love my work-life balance as a freelancing consultant in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math). I am all about balance - between time and money, and also enjoying my money. I also post daily on Instagram @saverspender.

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  1. Mia

    Lots of very successful people take public transit in big cities. Mayor Bloomberg and Sarah Jessica Parker ride the nyc subway.

    1. Mia

      I’ve also seen some fairly well known political folks riding the bus and metro in Washington, DC. I recognize them and I’m sure others do, too.

      Riding public transit is part of the culture in a certain big cities, especially since it is often the most efficient way to get somewhere. It’s very safe in many cities too, if you stick to certain lines.

      1. Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

        I really applaud this. I LOVE IT in fact.

    2. Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

      This is great, but also because taking cabs is the same as taking the metro because I have experienced that. HAHA!

  2. Jen

    It’s probably different in a bigger city, but where I am high quality and/or designer stuff totally goes under the radar. People generally don’t recognize it and don’t care. Now if I was wearing one of the popular “designer” mall brands with huge or repeated logos, then I would have to worry about being jumped. Something like Givenchy, they would see the brand name and it would not mean a thing.

    Sometimes I wish I could run into another person who “gets it”…not because I want to flaunt anything (truthfully I’m not wealthy, just a super thrifter), but because I do a ton of research into quality and it would be neat to meet someone like-minded who gets excited about the same stuff.

    1. Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

      YOU AND ME BOTH! I carry Givenchy and have Hermes boots, but only people who are into that, can recognize that and squee with me over the great deal I got for something so luxurious.

      You are right though — wearing LV or recognizable designer brands from the mall, are more likely to make people sit up and stare, but Celine, or any of those other low-key brands that only we would know, are completely bypassed unless… you know.


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