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What sorts of things do you do to feel sexy or alluring?



That’s simple; any or all of the following:

  • Smile
  • Listen to really good, happy, bass-heavy music that lifts my spirit
  • Body-conscious dresses or wrap dresses (they flatter my body type¬†really well)
  • High heels
  • Soft, bouncy, slightly curly hair (I don’t do anything to it, I just tie it up into a bun and let it dry like that into loose curls and then fluff them out in the morning)
  • A little bit of makeup (under eye concealer, eyeliner, light bronzer, lip colour at a minimum)
  • Wear a lot of white, cobalt blue, magenta or red. Those colours really look good on me.
  • And lately, it is to slap on some really deep red (HIGH MAINTENANCE) lips…..


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  1. Sarahn

    Mine is
    – wearing jewellery- earrings as a minimum, but a ring too, and if the outfit requires, a necklace. Bracelets are flirty so I wear them when I feel like that/want to feel that
    – mascara for my light but long lashes
    – heels – in 8 years in this company I’ve worked from uniform and boots to low heels and man do I love a strut now
    – skinny pants (jeans particularly) – I have long legs and after being a seriously late adopter three years ago, the love is growing
    – always wearing perfume so I smell consistently the same (one spritz to my hair)
    – smirking – I smile heaps but I have a next level to be alluring, matches my “fluttery” eyelashes

    1. Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

      HEELS!!!! Heels do it for sure. I was also a late adopter to skinny jeans but I completely love them now.

  2. Alice

    At times, I feel the need to plan my beauty sleep, a light dinner, and a breakfast smoothie. It’s also the reason I keep my uncomfortable but pretty clothes, even if they are only worn a handful of times a year.

    1. Sherry of Save. Spend. Splurge.

      I hear you. Getting sucked into something a little more structured can give your backbone a lift and change how you feel.


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