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Why do we spend so recklessly on vacations?

And by “we” I mean, “I” of course, because there are plenty of people who go on vacation and come back with nothing but relaxed smiles on their faces.

But as not-the-most-frugal-person-in-the-world, I find it odd that I can chastise myself in posts about how I shouldn’t really be impulse spending so much, yet when I go on a vacation, it’s no holds barred!!

Paris-France-Rich-Shopping-Brand-Names-Travel-Photograph

(A photo I took of a gorgeous department store in Paris, France)

It’s as though I have a compulsive NEED to purchase something on vacation.

Taking pictures is the #1 activity of course (I came out with 19,000 photographs from a trip once), but I also seem to require a souvenir of some sort, and if I don’t find anything (GASP!), I clutch on to anything to remind me of the place.

Why do I do this?

I can remember everything about my trips, especially the strongest memories which seem to last a lot longer than what I bought.

Why am I trying to be so careful about my money in my normal life, but then I go hog wild when I’m on vacation?

It’s like the valve is released when I am not on my home continent, and money pours out of my wallet.

I’ll have to remind myself of that each time I go to try and buy something on vacation: Would you buy that if you were at home?

Something to think about, for sure.

Do you do something similar?

 

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15 Comments

  1. MelD

    Boxes of matches in a big bowl in my kitchen show a lot of places we’ve been to and are a useful souvenir – though eventually I didn’t know what to do with the empty boxes so got rid of them. Postcards, as mentioned, I also like.
    Nowadays (now I’m reformed LOL), I like to replace something wearing out or buy something I need and then I always have the memory that it came from Paris, England, Munich, Vienna or wherever. This summer, I brought cherry red ballerinas back from Brittany, not typical (foods are better for that: honey, salted caramel…) but whenever I wear these until they wear out, I will remember my holiday :).

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      Clothes as souvenirs. I like.

      I also think collecting a pretty bill note from each country is nice.

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  2. Mochi & Macarons

    It is also the idea of ‘getting away’ and letting your shopping inhibitions go.

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  3. Jaime

    I don’t buy souvenirs anymore. A lot of the prices are hiked up and they just end up sitting on a shelf. I got rid of my souvenirs because they were basically dust collectors. Anyway like you I like taking photos and spending money on food. I’m a foodie. 🙂

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      I need to keep this post in mind when I travel again.

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  4. Bridget

    bahahaha. I have a totally different spending personality on vacation = I get so carried away. I think it’s just being in a new place and having nothing else to do all day but wander & shop

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      That is it!!!! Wandering with nothing to do although BF keeps us super busy with a lot of attractions. I am worn out at the end but I STILL feel the need to shop.

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  5. Cosmogirl2100

    I used to do the same, until I found my solution: Postcards! They are usually very cheap, and I now have a collage of most of the places I have visited on my wall (pleasant way to start the day!) Plus I get the satisfaction of having “shopped”.

     However, I have a feeling that all this will go out the window when I visit Paris in September..

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      Paris is another world.

      I spend very recklessly on food but then my shopping is insane there.

      The BAGS!!!! The WALLETS!!!! Best country for leather.

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  6. B. (Below Her Means)

    Being out of your element! I do the same thing. I figuratively run naked and wildly, arms flapping in reckless abandon. Sorry for that visual.

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      *laughs*

      I think it is the sheer excitement and novelty of vacations that make us go crazy

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  7. eemusings

    Guilty. Guilty. Guilty.

    I’m going to be planning some big trips and fear how that’s going to turn out. I may ask you at some point for advice about travelling Europe.

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      Email me any time 🙂 I’ll give you as much info as I can.

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  8. Fabulouslyfrugirl

    I totally understand what you’re saying. 

    I never really budgeted much for my trips (gasp!), until last year!  I always had a rough idea of what I’d need for accommodations, food, etc., but I never made a budget and tracked my expenses (aside from big expenses like flights and hotel – since they were on my credit statement) that same I did in “real life”.

    But now that I started to budget my trips, sometimes, it makes me feel a bit depressed about how much money I am bleeding.  I know it’s not very vacation-like, but seeing the numbers makes me kinda wish that I didn’t need to spend so much…  For instance, if I spend $15 on a mediocre meal because I need to eat, I think about how many meals I can make with $15 at home.  But, if the $15 was spent on a delicious meal of local cuisine that I can’t find in Toronto, I don’t feel any remorse, at all.  Not sure if that makes sense, but I really noticed it in my Italy trip.  

     

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    1. Mochi & Macarons

      You want the max out of your money. That makes sense to me. My problem has always been shopping. I don’t know why I never thought about it.

      Reply

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