I was thinking the other day about the 5 things that I actually can’t do without and have helped my life immensely….
Wireless headphones that are noise-cancelling
Without a doubt these Bose QuietComfort 35s have paid for themselves ten times over.
I have used them to:
- calm down my brain from the sound of a little pink-faced Baby (and now Little) Bun screaming his head off.
- do the dishes in relative peace and feel like I am re-generating some mental sanity…
- at the office to block out all of my super cosy cubicle mates who looooove to collaborate loudly (sometimes I need to think too..)
- walking around, totally lost in music, a podcast or the world, just letting people pass me by while I am off in my dream world
My co-workers are all envious. They want a pair but they are expensive and kind of out of their price range.. which makes me slightly uncomfortable wearing them in the first place, but I NEED THEM.
Weekly “Treat” at Starbucks during Sacred Mommy Time Off
I used to beat myself up over “wasting” $5-ish dollars on some hot milk and syrup (yes that’s all it is.. I know, everyone..), but it is a treat that I really, truly, savour and enjoy.
Just look at it.. I can smell the spices coming off the top..
So, now I let myself buy a huge venti Chai latte at Starbucks weekly when I go out for my Mommy Time Off (desperately needed).
I don’t feel guilty about it any more and I love every sip. My only gripe is I wish they would stir it more so the syrup is evenly distributed and not sinking to the bottom with only milk on top, and then this disgusting hit of pure sugar when you reach the end. *shudder*
A Minimalist Phone & Wallet Combination Case
I know it sounds stupid… but I significantly cut down on what I carry around with me now (result of being a frazzled mother).
I only have 2 well-used credit cards, my metro pass, my driving license, a spare $20 bill and my iPod Touch all in this one handy convenient case. The pattern also really makes me smile, they have plenty of variations and they’re pretty cheap around $10.
I just carry this wallet/phone combo around with me all day long and I never have to think: Oh did I bring my wallet?
I managed to cut down on all of the clutter I carry around (and can just grab this ONE THING and literally leave the house with my car keys to go and do anything).
As for all of my rewards cards, I stuck them into this app called StoCard….and if I need my debit card to go to the bank to take physical cash (or deposit it), I make a note and carry that one card with me for that one task, then return it to a wallet that stays at home.
If I ever use the $20 bill and break it to buy something (I am loathe to do so which is also a bonus), I carry around the bills and change until I go home, and stick it in my “at home wallet”.
When I have so many small bills or coins piled up, then I use it on one purchase or get a store to change it back into a $20 for me to put back into my wallet/case.
Buying a second 2-in-one foundation/concealer stick for the office
I use this Anastasia foundation / concealer stick that I love to death.
I have one at home, and one at the office, even though they’re pricey because I like to touch-up my makeup at the office especially since I am sick all the time, I keep blowing my nose and ruining my makeup, or my under eye concealer disappears from rubbing my eyes.
I use it pretty much daily, along with these J&J face / oil blotting wipes.
It sounds vain and totally stupid but when I don’t feel like I look good, put-together or organized, my whole personality, demeanour and day just falls apart.
I need to feel like I look put-together to be able to function properly. It’s sad but true. I need my outfit to be on point, my makeup, my hair, and then I can pretty much crush anything.
(My real love for an all-over SPF 30 foundation though is this Holy Grail from Dermablend Smooth Liquid Camo however… I have phenomenally faked Elven skin now.)
Having apps to organize my life & money
I have three major tools I use to organize my life:
The ToDo app organizes what I need to buy, recurring appointments…. my entire life.
I don’t forget things, I make notes about things I want to research or buy, and I am super organized with it.
Then obviously for my money, I track all of my spending, do charts (check out my budget roundups here), and my investing as well.