Sherry’s Ramblings of the Week
Thinking that I might just make this a Wednesday feature. I need a sort of impromptu, unscheduled post to randomly write about things.
What do we think?
THIS WOMAN CAN SING
If you’re American, watch it. You’ll cry, I bet.
My only MINOR pet peeve is when singers try to change it up at the end.
Why can’t we just sing the notes, and power through them? This wobbling back and forth with different notes ruins the ending for me.
I was hoping and waiting for a strong one-note finish and instead I got led off the path musically.
TRYING TO BE A BETTER MOTHER
Aren’t we all?
Then I go and read this post about how to set your kid up for success and I think of these things:
1. Rich privilege
If you aren’t in poverty, you have time, energy and money to do everything they’re suggesting from helping them study math to spending time with them.
It really keeps the poor where they are. Single mothers working minimum wage jobs don’t have time for all that.
2. I love that Working Mothers play a good role
Working mothers are good role models. It forces children to be more independent and shows that women are equal providers.
3. But why are we emphasizing ‘mothering’?
“the number of hours that moms spend with kids between ages 3 and 11 does little to predict the child’s behavior, well-being, or achievement. ”
What about dads? WTF?
HUNTING FOR SOME MOTO BIKER BOOTS
To be honest, I don’t know what I want. I know probably not too many silver studs or buckles as it will look too young and dated in the future, so something with gunmetal would be ideal if any at all.
Nothing too short or too high, but the perfect mid-calf slouchy height.
I am really liking the look of these ones and these ones, but I don’t know how they’ll fit on my feet, if they are comfortable, and the price tag makes me O_o.
These ones however are similar in style and look, but half the price, but may not be slouchy enough.
I also like this pair because I think it is subtle enough, slouchy enough, etc.. but cannot pay that kind of money for a pair of boots that I consider trendy and not classic.
Yet I don’t want to pay too little and buy a sweatshop pair.
I tried on all these versions of Fryes, like this pair with shearling, this pair with triple buckles, and this pair that I thought was maybe a tad too studded.
The ones I didn’t like were this pair, with the heel being ridiculously clunky and heavy. I know they’re meant to last, but DAMN my calves were getting ripped just prancing* around the store.
(*Baby Bun and I were playing this new game I invented while shopping called: Chase Mommy around the shoe racks so Mommy can feel them in action & shop peacefully)
To sum it up, I do not know what I want. I want a pair, but I can’t figure out what I want. When I do, I will let you know.
All I know is: Black. Casual. Rugged. Slouchy. Mid-Calf. Unpolished. Secondhand??
CONSIDERING BUYING A PLACE
Partly sparked by reading this post: Big Spenders, and partly by my landlord.
When I rent, I am renting with the expectation that YOU TAKE CARE OF EVERYTHING.
You don’t just sit back, cash the cheque 12 months of the year, and do JACK SQUAT in maintenance, help or anything for that money.
I mean, what I am paying is not chump change. I am paying for the location of course, the apartment itself, and so on… but I could just as easily rent elsewhere if I was really pushed.
This landlord cashes my cheques, expects to do zero to the place to fix it, and then has the effin’ nerve to complain and bitch about having to fix them.
Hello? THAT IS THE BUSINESS. Rentals?
I’m seriously annoyed.
We’ve done the math and it only works out in our favour if we:
- Pay in cash
- Do not carry a mortgage
- Buy something reasonably priced in this housing market (this is where that Big Spenders article comes in)
- Downgrade (go from a 2 bedroom to a 1 bedroom)
It also means I need to put an end to fun to stump up all the dough needed to pay this place in cash.
I am LOATHE to sell any stocks or investments in this downturn. I am just itching for oil to rise.
I have been casually following the news regarding this, and I did not really care either way — exit, don’t exit — in the sense that they’re all voting citizens and should have known what they were getting into, the way I did when I voted in my own election.
The fact that people are starting to have voting regret and REMORSE over having voted to Leave because they didn’t realize the consequences of their vote … makes me… so conflicted. I feel pity, anger and annoyance, mostly.
(Note: Said anger was also deriving from the stock markets plunging around the world in response but I refuse to sell over a blip.)
That’s all for now.