Now that Baby Bun is about 2 years old, I thought I’d do a quick update on sleeping on this minimalist futon as a family.
P.S. You can buy an all-cotton futon made in the U.S.! You can’t get better than that.
We do co-sleeping after 2 weeks of sleepless nights of Baby Bun running out of his room crying at night to cuddle in my arms, and we now finally sleep a solid 6-8 hours without much of a peep.
It’s not for everyone has I have neighbours who are ADAMANT they will not allow their kids to sleep with them, and have even put up baby gates to ‘lock’ them into their rooms at night, whilst an older generation grandmother at the park the other day called it cruel to force kids sleep alone.
(Not me. I loved sleeping alone, but this was not to be and I have made peace with the family bed.)
From Day One – 5 months
From Day One, Baby Bun was a newborn on the futon bed. I would lay him there, he wouldn’t move or squiggle much and he pretty much stayed where he was when I left him.
He slept fine, he wasn’t smothered or suffocated by the futon bed (they say you need a hard bed, but I just made a nest for him and made sure he couldn’t suffocate accidentally).
Since it’s also on the floor, and he slept on his back, I was even less worried.
6 months – 18 months
Once he started moving however, I began to stack things around his bed, namely cardboard boxes with books inside to keep him contained.
I was still able to step in and take care of him easily (no need to reach into a crib and break any backs), and I loved that he ended up using the boxes to learn how to stand and to bang on them for entertainment.
Why I love futon sleeping on the floor so much
When he slept alone…
When he slept alone, it was nice because sometimes for his naps, I’d conk out beside him. PLENTY OF ROOM to sleep beside a baby, and he even enjoyed it because he’d wake up and then I’d get this gummy, drooling grin saying:
Oh hai Mommy!
There you are!
No need to call for you.
I’d also be able to lie down beside him and half doze off while patting his bum to sleep (I still have to do this and he’s past 2 years), trust me, I almost fell asleep a few times when he slept alone, and I’d have to wake myself up to go to sleep in my own bed.
Now that he sleeps with us…
We sleep on the floor, ancient Japanese-style and I love sleeping with Baby Bun in between us now because I can just reach over when I am half asleep and re-adjust him back onto his pillow or fix his blanket.
All the other times before, I’d have to get up and go to see what’s happening because he’d be sobbing in his bed crying for something, and if you get out of your warm bedcovers, you’re immediately awake and even crankier than before.
As he gets older…
He will want to sleep alone eventually, and he’ll be on the floor too. I will never worry about him falling off, never need to buy a toddler bed rail and will be happy to still read books with him in bed.
When we’re not sleeping…
It is AWESOME TO PLAY ON. It is like having a bed mat on the floor where we can run the truck over the pillows and blankets, make a fort, make a tent, read books cuddled up with a blanket and play tickle games.
He. Loves. It.
He even runs and throws himself on the bed, and I never worry about him hurting himself (unless he miscalculates and smashes into the wall) because it’s on the floor, super padded and soft.
Kids LOVE being on the floor, and I love being at eye level with him, sometimes even lying on my back pretending to be a mountain while he plays around me with his truck (and I get to half snooze as well).
We hang out, we spend the whole day in bed, and it’s so much easier on me to be on a soft bed on the floor rather than trying to worry about him falling off and smashing his head (he did that on a friend’s bed the other day).
Where we buy our 100% all cotton authentic futons
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